وَقَالَتْ زَيْنَبُ: سَمِعْتُ أُمِّي أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ تَقُولُ: جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، إِنَّ ابْنَتِي تُوُفِّيَ عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا، وَقَدِ اشْتَكَتْ عَيْنَهَا، أَفَنَكْحِلُهَا؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «لا» ، مَرَّتَيْنِ أَوْ ثَلاثًا. كُلُّ ذَلِكَ يَقُولُ: «لا» ، ثُمَّ قَالَ: «إِنَّمَا هِيَ أَرْبَعَةُ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرٌ، وَقَدْ كَانَتْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ فِي الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ تَرْمِي بِالْبَعْرَةِ عَلَى رَأْسِ الْحَوْلِ» . قَالَتْ زَيْنَبُ: كَانَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ إِذَا تُوُفِّيَ عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا، دَخَلَتْ حِفْشًا، وَلَبِسَتْ شَرَّ ثِيَابِهَا، وَلَمْ تَمَسَّ طِيبًا وَلا شَيْئًا حَتَّى تَمُرَّ بِهَا سَنَةٌ، ثُمَّ تُؤْتَى بِدَابَّةٍ أَوْ حِمَارٍ أَوْ شَاةٍ أَوْ طَيْرٍ فَتَقْبِضُ بِهِ، فَقَلَّمَا تَقْبِضُ بِشَيْءٍ إِلا مَاتَ، ثُمَّ تَخْرُجُ، فَتُعْطَى بَعْرَةً فَتَرْمِي بِهَا، ثُمَّ تُرَاجِعُ بَعْدَهُ مَا شَاءَتْ مِنَ الطِّيبِ أَوْ غَيْرِهِ. قَالَ الشَّافِعِيُّ: الْحِفْشُ: الْبَيْتُ الصَّغِيرُ الذَّلِيلُ مِنَ الشَّعَرِ وَالْبِنَاءِ وَغَيْرِهِ. وَالْقَبْصُ: أَنْ تَأْخُذَ مِنَ الدَّابَّةِ مَوْضِعًا بِأَطْرَافِ أَصَابِعِهَا. وَالْقَبْضُ: الأَخْذُ بِالْكَفِّ كُلِّهَا.
مسند امام شافی · Hadith 1311
Zainab: I heard my mother Umm Salamah said: A woman came to the Prophet, peace be upon him said: O Messenger of Allah, my daughter died of her husband, has complained about the same, Ovenkhlha? The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: “No”, twice or three times. All of that he says: “No,” then he said: “It is four and ten months, and one of them was in Jahlia, on the Ra`l Ra`l.” Zainab: the woman if he died by her husband, Hfsha entered, and wore the evil of her clothes, and did not affect the good and nothing even going through the year, and then bear Bdabh donkey or sheep or bird Vtqd do, rarely grab anything except Matt, then graduated, are given Barh Throw it, and then after you review what you like, whether it is good or not. Al-Shafi’i said: Al-Hafsh: the small house is the one that is humiliated by poetry, construction, and other things. And the cage: to take from the bear a position with the tips of its fingers. And the arrest: taking all of the palm.
Sanad
وَقَالَتْ زَيْنَبُ: سَمِعْتُ أُمِّي أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ