حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ أَخْبَرَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ حَلْحَلَةَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ عَطَاءِ بْنِ عَلْقَمَةَ أَنَّهُ كَانَ جَالِسًا مَعَ ابْنِ عُمَرَ بِالسُّوقِ وَمَعَهُ سَلَمَةُ بْنُ الْأَزْرَقِ إِلَى جَنْبِهِ فَمُرَّ بِجِنَازَةٍ يَتْبَعُهَا بُكَاءٌ فَقَالَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ لَوْ تَرَكَ أَهْلُ هَذَا الْمَيِّتِ الْبُكَاءَ لَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَمَيِّتِهِمْ فَقَالَ سَلَمَةُ بْنُ الْأَزْرَقِ تَقُولُ ذَلِكَ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ قَالَ نَعَمْ أَقُولُهُ قَالَ إِنِّي سَمِعْتُ أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ وَمَاتَ مَيِّتٌ مِنْ أَهْلِ مَرْوَانَ فَاجْتَمَعَ النِّسَاءُ يَبْكِينَ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَ مَرْوَانُ قُمْ يَا عَبْدَ الْمَلِكِ فَانْهَهُنَّ أَنْ يَبْكِينَ فَقَالَ أَبُو هُرَيْرَةَ دَعْهُنَّ فَإِنَّهُ مَاتَ مَيِّتٌ مِنْ آلِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَاجْتَمَعَ النِّسَاءُ يَبْكِينَ عَلَيْهِ فَقَامَ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ يَنْهَاهُنَّ وَيَطْرُدُهُنَّ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ دَعْهُنَّ يَا ابْنَ الْخَطَّابِ فَإِنَّ الْعَيْنَ دَامِعَةٌ وَالْفُؤَادَ مُصَابٌ وَإِنَّ الْعَهْدَ حَدِيثٌ فَقَالَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ أَنْتَ سَمِعْتَ هَذَا مِنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ يَأْثُرُهُ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَاللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَعْلَمُ
مسند امام احمد بن حنبل · Hadith 5889
It was narrated from Muhammad ibn 'Amr ibn 'Ata' ibn 'Alqamah that he was sitting with Ibn 'Umar in the marketplace, and Salamah ibn al-Azraq was beside him. A funeral passed by, followed by people who were weeping, and 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar said: If the family of this deceased man refrained from weeping, it would be better for their deceased one. Salamah ibn al-Azraq said: Are you saying this, O Abu 'Abd ar-Rahmaan? He said: Yes, I am saying it. He said: I heard Abu Hurayrah, when a member o Maxwaan's family died and the women gathered to weep for him- Marwaan said: Get up, O ‘Abd al-Malik, and tell them not to weep But Abu Hurayrah said: Let them be, for a member of the Prophet's family died and the women gathered to weep for him, and 'Umar ibn al-Khattaab wanted to tell them to stop weeping and to send them out, but the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: "Let them be, O son of al-Khattaab, for the eye weeps and the heart grieves, and the calamity has only just happened." Ibn 'Umar said: Did you hear that from Abu Hurayrah? He said: Yes. He said: Did he narrate it from the Prophet (PBUH). He said: Yes. He said: Then Allah and His Messenger know best.
Sanad
حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ أَخْبَرَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ حَلْحَلَةَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ عَطَاءِ بْنِ عَلْقَمَةَ