أَخْبَرَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ الْبَلْخِيُّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْجَبَّارِ بْنُ الْوَرْدِ سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ أَبِي مُلَيْکَةَ يَقُولُ لَمَّا هَلَکَتْ أُمُّ أَبَانَ حَضَرْتُ مَعَ النَّاسِ فَجَلَسْتُ بَيْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ وَابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ فَبَکَيْنَ النِّسَائُ فَقَالَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ أَلَا تَنْهَی هَؤُلَائِ عَنْ الْبُکَائِ فَإِنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّی اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبَعْضِ بُکَائِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ قَدْ کَانَ عُمَرُ يَقُولُ بَعْضَ ذَلِکَ خَرَجْتُ مَعَ عُمَرَ حَتَّی إِذَا کُنَّا بِالْبَيْدَائِ رَأَی رَکْبًا تَحْتَ شَجَرَةٍ فَقَالَ انْظُرْ مَنْ الرَّکْبُ فَذَهَبْتُ فَإِذَا صُهَيْبٌ وَأَهْلُهُ فَرَجَعْتُ إِلَيْهِ فَقُلْتُ يَا أَمِيرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ هَذَا صُهَيْبٌ وَأَهْلُهُ فَقَالَ عَلَيَّ بِصُهَيْبٍ فَلَمَّا دَخَلْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ أُصِيبَ عُمَرُ فَجَلَسَ صُهَيْبٌ يَبْکِي عِنْدَهُ يَقُولُ وَا أُخَيَّاهُ وَا أُخَيَّاهُ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ يَا صُهَيْبُ لَا تَبْکِ فَإِنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّی اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبَعْضِ بُکَائِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ قَالَ فَذَکَرْتُ ذَلِکَ لِعَائِشَةَ فَقَالَتْ أَمَا وَاللَّهِ مَا تُحَدِّثُونَ هَذَا الْحَدِيثَ عَنْ کَاذِبَيْنِ مُکَذَّبَيْنِ وَلَکِنَّ السَّمْعَ يُخْطِئُ وَإِنَّ لَکُمْ فِي الْقُرْآنِ لَمَا يَشْفِيکُمْ أَلَّا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَی وَلَکِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّی اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَيَزِيدُ الْکَافِرَ عَذَابًا بِبُکَائِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ
سنن نسائی · Hadith 1863
‘Abdul-Jabbar bin Al-Ward narrated: “I heard Ibn Abi Mulaikah say: When Umm Aban died, I attended with the people. I sat in front of ‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar and Ibn ‘Abbas, and the women wept. Ibn Umar said: ‘Why don’t you tell them not to weep? For I heard the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم say: The deceased is punished due to some of his family’s weeping for him.” Ibn ‘Abbas said: “Umar used to narrate something like that. I went out with ‘Umar and when We got to on uninhabited area, he saw a caravan beneath a tree. He Said: ‘See whose caravan this is.’ I Went and I found Suhaib and his family. i came back to him and said: ‘Commander of the Believers! This is Suhaib and his family.’ He said: ‘Bring Suhaib to me.’ When we entered Al Madinah, ‘Umar was attacked and Suhaib sat by him, weeping and saying, ‘my brother, my brother.’ ‘Umar said: ‘Suhaib, do not weep, for I heard the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم say: The deceased is punished due to some of the weeping of his family for him. He said: I mentioned that to ‘Aishah and she said: ‘By Allah you are not narrating this Hadith from two liars who have disbelieved, but sometimes you mishear. And in the Qur’an you have that which gives you the answer: And no bearer of burdens shall bear another’s burdenJ And the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم said: ‘Allah increases the punishment of the disbeliever because of his family’s weeping for him.” (Sahih)
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أَخْبَرَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ الْبَلْخِيُّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْجَبَّارِ بْنُ الْوَرْدِ سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ أَبِي مُلَيْکَةَ