أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْمَعِيلُ بْنُ مَسْعُودٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا خَالِدٌ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِکِ عَنْ عَطَائٍ عَنْ جَابِرٍ أَنَّهُ تَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً عَلَی عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّی اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَلَقِيَهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّی اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ أَتَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ قَالَ قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ بِکْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا قَالَ قُلْتُ بَلْ ثَيِّبًا قَالَ فَهَلَّا بِکْرًا تُلَاعِبُکَ قَالَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ کُنَّ لِي أَخَوَاتٌ فَخَشِيتُ أَنْ تَدْخُلَ بَيْنِي وَبَيْنَهُنَّ قَالَ فَذَاکَ إِذًا إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ تُنْکَحُ عَلَی دِينِهَا وَمَالِهَا وَجَمَالِهَا فَعَلَيْکَ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاکَ
سنن نسائی · Hadith 3234
It was narrated from Jabir that he married a woman at the time of the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم and the Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم met him and said: “Have you got married, Jabir? He said: ‘Yes.’ He said: ‘A virgin or a previously-married woman?’ I said: ‘A previously married woman.’ He said: ‘Why not a virgin who would play with you?’ I said: ‘Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم, I have sisters, and I did not want her to come between them and I.’ He said: ‘That’s better then. A woman may be married for her religious commitment, her wealth or her beauty. You should choose the one who is religiously committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (may you prosper).” (Sahih)
Sanad
أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْمَعِيلُ بْنُ مَسْعُودٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا خَالِدٌ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِکِ عَنْ عَطَائٍ عَنْ جَابِرٍ